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For single fathers, manoeuvring child contact disputes can be challenging, particularly when the children are aged three and under. However, staying actively involved in your children\u2019s lives, understanding your legal rights and obligations, and approaching the matter strategically is essential to achieving a fair and workable contact arrangement that prioritises your children\u2019s best interests.<\/p>\n

Understand contact plans<\/strong><\/p>\n

Before negotiating shared contact of your minor children, provide a detailed suggested plan that accommodates everyone\u2019s needs and schedules. In anticipation of this, it is necessary to familiarise yourself with the most common 50\/50 contact plans to determine which work best for you, the other parent, and your children. These include the week-on\/week-off, 2-2-5-5, 3-4\/4-3, and 2-2-3 plans.<\/p>\n

Always put your children first<\/strong><\/p>\n

Under South African law, the \u2018best interests of the child\u2019<\/u><\/a> standard is of \u2018paramount importance\u2019 in all matters concerning minor children and guides the operation of the Children\u2019s Act. Beyond this legal requirement, it is imperative to prioritise the emotional, physical, and psychological needs of your children above any lingering or ongoing conflicts with the other parent.<\/p>\n

Avoid mud slinging<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unless the other parent\u2019s behaviour conflicts with the best of interests of your children, avoid diminishing or criticising them, wherever possible. Instead, focus on your positive qualities, dedication to your children, and willingness to work with the other parent to facilitate a harmonious co-parenting arrangement<\/u><\/a>. Crucially, refrain from using your children to convey information to the other parent.<\/p>\n

Maximise contact<\/strong><\/p>\n

Make the most of the time you have with your children. Avoid rescheduling and always remain punctual. Visit new attractions and participate in interactive activities. In the event of an emergency, special occasion, or scheduling oversight, readily accept the other parent\u2019s invitations to look after your children during their time. Keep a note of these instances.<\/p>\n

Separate child maintenance from child contact<\/strong><\/p>\n

Under section 18 of the Children\u2019s Act, a parent\u2019s right to contact with their children is distinct from the legal obligation to furnish child maintenance in accordance with their financial means. As such, refrain from conflating these two concepts in an attempt to increase visitation or contribute less to your children\u2019s care.<\/p>\n

Appoint a skilled family law attorney<\/strong><\/p>\n

At STBB, our family law attorneys have the skills and experience to manoeuvre the legal intricacies of child contact disputes. Acutely aware of the multi-layered dynamics of familial relationships, our attorneys understand the necessity of achieving a fair and appropriate co-parenting arrangement as quickly and efficiently as possible.<\/p>\n

For expert legal assistance you can trust, contact our family law specialists at familylaw@stbb.co.za<\/u><\/a> today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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